Pets and People

Pet loss and grief support
January 27, 2010

How do you know it is time say goodbye?

By Michael O'Donoghue, Friends of Dogs

How to know when it is time to say good­bye?
How do you know when it is time for euthanasia?

This deci­sion is the hard­est part of own­ing a pet, our pets and com­pan­ions have put their trust in us, and we must decide when enough is enough.

I believe there are sev­eral impor­tant ques­tions to ask yourself.

Is the pet still eat­ing and drink­ing?
Can the pet walk enough to get up and go to the toi­let by itself
Is the pet still happy to see you?
Have you had your pet exam­ined by a vet?

If all rea­son­able vet care has been given to the pet and there is noth­ing else you can do to relive the suf­fer­ing it may then be time to con­sider euthanasia.

Peo­ple find this deci­sion very dif­fi­cult and spend a lot of time ago­nis­ing about it. Usu­ally as the dete­ri­o­ra­tion in the pets con­di­tion hap­pens slowly and there is no clear rea­son or time to take the pet down the vet. It is always good to talk to your vet about the con­di­tion of your pet as there maybe sim­ple solu­tions to your pets prob­lems. The vets’ job is to help you make this deci­sion and then sup­port you in this decision.

Some­times eco­nomic rea­son­ing must come into the deci­sion mak­ing, you could spend a lot more money but this may only extend the life of the pet for a small amount of time. Some peo­ple would put them­selves into a lot of debt to pay for the treat­ment of their pets. This always hum­bles me as a vet that peo­ple would go with­out so much to save their pet. But some­times peo­ple have to be real­is­tic and see that the best solu­tion is euthana­sia, this can be quite painful to realise if you had more money you would go ahead with the treat­ment. This is a dif­fi­cult deci­sion to make and you must bal­ance the eco­nomic real­ity to the needs of the pet, your pet would not want you to suf­fer for it sake.

When you know it is time you need to stay focused on that deci­sion and do all the right things to make sure it is a good euthanasia.

By Michael O’Donoghue BVSc
Peo­ple and pets

http://www.people-and-pets.com



3 Responses to “How do you know it is time say goodbye?”

  1. Santiago Alberson Says:

    Hi, I just tried to email you about this par­tic­u­lar post still can’t get in touch with you. If you please e-mail me as soon as get a minute. Many thanks.


  2. Michael O'Donoghue Says:

    send an email to me on mikeod4968@gmail.com


  3. Michael O'Donoghue Says:

    Send a reply to mikeod4968@gmail.com



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